Sunday, March 30, 2008
Sox Win Record Exhibition
The league's getting their money's worth out of Red Sox Nation and the cultural phenomenon the organization invokes.
What a Day!
My mom and her friend, Tony, came to visit yesterday. Kim and I met Eric, my older brother, at 10:30am at Penn Station. He was flying solo because, unfortunately, Jenn's been pretty sick lately and couldn't make it out. Mom and Tony arrived around 11:15am. Since they were leaving at 7pm, we had only a matter of hours to enjoy each other's company (we hadn't seen each other since Christmas) and see New York. With what little time we had available, however, we managed to do the following:
1.) Empire Diner for brunch.
Having met at a bustling Penn Station, we thought it best to start by settling down and getting a bite to eat. With that in mind, I'd read about the Empire Diner, a 1950's-style restaurant with a great menu, and we thought to walk to it (22nd St. and 10th Ave.). It was a beautiful day, a nice way to stretch our legs, and a cozy dining experience. The menu was everything we'd hoped for, we beat the rush (you'll note the line extends well out the door), and the food was pretty good. I enjoyed my French Toast (slices of bagget, dipped in Haggen Dazs vanilla, egg, and cinnamon) served with sliced almonds and bananas. I liked Kim's sizebale cheddar and bacon omelette served with "Empire chips," as well. The prices weren't "dirt-cheap," but also weren't considerably more; Kim's omelette was $12 and my dish was $10. I'd go back again, thought the service was great, and really enjoyed the company of friends and family.
2.) Rockefeller Center.
From the diner, we headed up to Rockefeller Center (5th Ave. to 7th Ave. btwn. 47th and 51st Streets). There was a bit of a hurry to make the subway, but that was all part of the fun.
We started by checking out the Plaze, replete with active ice skating rink, before heading up to the Observation Deck.
3.) "Top of the Rock" Observation Deck.
I've spoken about this on earlier blogs ("Top of the Rock" and "Central Park from the Top of the Rock"), but it was just as enjoyable this time. Eric pointed out the Statue of Liberty to Mom, there was the ever-confounding "Concrete Jungle," more Central Park, and time for Mom and Kim to enjoy the view and each other's company.
4.) The Metropolitan Museum of Art's Balcony Cafe.
After all the walking, trains, etc., Mom was ready for a glass of wine. So, we were off to the Metropolitan Museum of Art's cafe. We passed by St. Patrick's Cathedral, and were but a few of many tourists who witnessed the beginning of a wedding, and then continued to the Met.
5.) The "Temple of Dendur" Exhibit at the Metropolitan Museum of Art.
Following the refreshments and snacks, we only a matter of hours before the train would be heading back out of town. We hurriedly visited the Temple of Dendur and then went back towards downtown Manhattan.
Kim and my Mom really seemed to enjoy themselves throughout.
6.) Appetizers and drinks at Mustang Sally's before heading back out of town.
Finally, we settled in for another cocktail and some appetizers. It was nice to come together, again, and enjoy good company and good food. This particular sports bar/restaurant has come to be one of our (Kim and I) favorites; it's very close to Madison Square Garden (located on 7th Ave. between 28th and 29th Sts.) , has classic pub food, and cold beer, all at decent prices.
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Kicked in the Nuts
Enjoy them both, particularly when the second one gets to 1:28.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Sign of Eden or Apocalypse?
LeBron's Vogue Cover
The attention now centers around whether or not this is a controversial photograph. Is it depicting LeBron James as "King Kong clutching Fay Wray," thereby promoting black men as bestial? Or does it suggest there's a violent side to LeBron, and black men, regardless of whether or not you think he looks like King Kong? Maybe it's just an image that accurately depicts these two individuals; LeBron is powerful and HUGE while Gisele is a supermodel and, not suprisingly, beautiful. That's exactly what the photo shows, right?
I only mention this becuase I've already spoken to the issue of sensitivity and hyper-sensitivity in "Chelsea's Vitriol" and yes, it did occur to me that perhaps I was being too sensitive and critical about the whole thing. But now here I am wondering if I should be more offended by this Vogue cover. I feel "okay" with it. But should I? or should I be more sensitive?
For more on this, I found Jason Whitlock's article "Am I supposed to be mad about LeBron?" (and quoted it above). It didn't do much for me, but if you're interested, check out: http://msn.foxsports.com/nba/story/7955740/Am-I-supposed-to-be-mad-about-LeBron?MSNHPHCP>1=39002.
Chelsea's Vitriol
Here's the link where you can find the original article I read to discover this event. It offers a brief look at the aftermath.
http://firstread.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2008/03/25/807581.aspx?GT1=43001
Chelsea's response, which was met with applause by the crowd, seems unappealing because the question is legitimate; does the public view Hillary as strong, or weak, because of her response to the Lewinsky scandal? This will, or at least should, impact what we might expect from voters and inform pundits as to what we might expect as the election continues. The question was also an opportunity for Chelsea to highlight her mother's strength and character, rather than something that can only be perceived as an attack on her family. Of course, it's also ironic that the question was posited to a member of one of America's most public families, but public by their own choice (as mom and dad don't have to pursue public office); this fact makes it more difficult to respect Chelsea playing the right-to-privacy "card."
It's also interesting there's such public support for Chelsea's brusque rebuttal. In case you missed it, one reader comment posted beneath the article was this one:
And again, while I understand the sensitivity that might have prompted such a vitriolic response, I don't think it was appropriate in this particular case. Was the person who asked the question a "worm," for example, that deserved to be "put...in his place" or "shut...up?" I don't think so.
But we can hardly be surprised. Not only did Chelsea receive public support at the time of the incident and through online supporters such as I've exemplified above, but there are a lot of people that agree with her remark. My concern is that what's prompted her response and much of the public's support is this country's general aversion to asking difficult questions. There are reports, for example, that only 30% of eligible voters discuss politics. And we all know why this is; we consider it rude to talk about religion and politics because, as the saying goes, "You never know who you're gonna offend." So how can we act appropriately if we're isolated in the thoughts and thinking leading up to that action. I mean, the question that prompted Chelsea's response was, basically: Is your mother a strong person and strong enough to be president? Again, connotation certainly got in the way of more clearly perceiving the question as it might have been intended, but can we be so sure the inquisitor is a "worm?" And if they are, is it because of the question or the fact that it was about politics?
Sox Split; Haa'den Throws Pissah
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Red Sox Dominate MLB Statistical Leaders
Brandon Moss
In spite of the fact that Manny Ramirez got the "Hero Interview," because of his 4RBIs, including two in the top of the 10th, the Sox would not have made it into extra innings if it weren't for Brandon Moss's 9th inning, bases empty, one out, homerun. That made it two RBIs on the day for Moss, a last minute addition to the line up. He filled in for JD Drew, who was scratched for tightness in the back.
Christmas Comes Early for Sox Fans!
Meanwhile, Japan seemed to do a wonderful job in the role of host. Though less than unbiased (as they have an enormous Red Sox fan base), they played "Sweet Caroline," brough Papelbon out to Dropkick Murphy's "Shipping up to Boston," and fervently cheered for the Sox throughout the contest. It was a wonderful start to a new year! Thank you, Santa.
Monday, March 24, 2008
"Stop Snitchin'"
With all that said, I've only just begun looking into one particular component of communities: the idea of being a "Snitch." This is an issue seen throughout society in day to day activities and public debate; in these forms it normally includes racism, dis/trusting police, and a learned code of ethics. Certainly, these are complicated issues with enumerable dynamics. To that end, I found work by CNN's Anderson Cooper to be useful. I started by viewing a segment he had done for 60 Minutes entitled "Stop Snitchin.'" (http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2007/04/19/60minutes/main2704565.shtml when this page loads, click on the video that appears in the viewer-it should be the story from 60 Minutes and should run about 13:45) While I found it to be a helpful start, it did offer a broader scope than I'd hoped to discover. But there was a specific portion that seemed both particularly poignant and disconcerting. In the following video, which is supremely brief, footage is concentrated to Anderson Cooper's interview with Rapper Cam'ron. The prolific hip-hop star explains that he would never cooperate with police, not even if he knew a serial killer was living next door to him. He offers explanations as to why, and there is an element of reasoning to parts of his thinking, but it does little to assuage the discomfort rendered by his emphatic discouragement of helping law enforcement officials. Discouragement that, experts say, helps explain why a growing number of murderers, rapists, and other criminals are getting away with their crimes.
The video, and Cooper's longer report, clearly attentuates any merit of the "Stop Snitchin'" campaign. But I felt my research was too biased and continued further to discover some very thoughtful remarks from entrepreneur, record producer, and social reformer Russell Simmons. In the video that follows, he strengthens the "Stop Snitchin'" campaign, which he also points out he does not personally endorse, by pointing out that much of the outrage over this campaign and Cam'ron's comments are expressions of people, "...blaming the messenger for the message. They're trying to break the mirror for what they're reflecting." He points to the fact that this is only one particular message from the hip-hop community and audience members need to be clear they can discern between what is said and the truth it expresses. In other words, though it may be hard for some to understand why anyone would support a movement to stop people from assisting police, we should not overlook the possibility that there might be some who feel oppressed by a system or circumstance and view the police force as an extension of that condition. As Simmons explains it, there are some who think that "...the police seem like they're holding the system up and the system is holding you down." I found the first five minutes of this video especially illuminating.
Cooper goes on to examine other issues related to the perception of law enforcement officials, but the value of Simmons' sentiment seems an important part of the quid pro quo I felt it necessary to undertake in order to better understand the far-reaching issue of what it means to be a "Snitch."
Although there were other influences that have continued to shape my journey to better understanding this issue, not the least of which is Geoffrey Canada's work, it still seems an interesting conundrum. Perhaps it's easier to examine these implications within a particular setting, such as a school. Let's say, for example, one student has stolen another's iPod. Let's also say this happened in the boys' locker room. Finally, let's assign these roles:
Student T (for Thief) took the iPod,
Student W (for Witness) saw or otherwise knows for certain that Student T did this,
Student V (for Victim) is the one that had the iPod stolen from their locker, and
Teacher is the person trying to find out who is responsible for the stolen iPod.
From here, there are a number of important questions we can ask. Many will also help to inform us more about what it means to be a "Snitch."
We must start exploring the paradigm somewhere, so let's start at the beginning. Student V's iPod has been stolen. He tells Teacher, who begins to investigate. As part of the investigation, Teacher asks Student W if they know anything about the matter. Perhaps the question is posed something like this:
Teacher: "I've heard that a student's iPod was stolen and I'm trying to figure out what happened. Do you know anything about this?"
Already, a number of assumptions have been made: that discovery would be so simple, that Student W might know something (as opposed to asking other students), and that Student W will cooperate. Each of these assumptions helps to restrict and inform the possible outcomes. For example, was Student W asked because Teacher believes Student W can be of help? or is Student W a suspect or someone who might be tangentially involved? Was Student W asked right away or after a considerable population had already been interviewed? For now, let's ignore these considerations. I recommend this measure for the sake of expediency and focus, rather than pomp and presumption.
In order to continue this suspension of disbelief, let's assume that Student W hasn't yet answered. In fact, the actual answer might seem of little consequence compared to the myriad of possibile responses and reasons for the selection of an individual answer.
Once Teacher has asked the question, Student W has a lot to consider. In most cases, even those whereby Teacher and Student W have a strong rapport, it seems irresponsible to suppose Student W might produce an anomylous act. In other words, it seems unlikely that the person asking the question will measurably effect the content of Student W's response; it's more likely, I would argue, Student W's response will be the result of long-term social conditioning. If we can agree to that likelihood, then the response does not matter as much as the student's paradigms that are producing the response.
Again, the question has been asked and we still don't have a response from Student W. The student, meanwhile, is faced with the dilemma of whether or not they should "snitch." Regardless of Student W's personal feelings towards snitching, it will come into consideration because:
- if the students tells the truth and unveils Student T's identity, Student W may face scrutiny from peers because Student W snitched, or
- if the student lies, or otherwise preserves Student T's anonymity, Student W has surrendered their private ability to control the situation to the voice of the public and scrutiny Student W might face from his own peers.
So if Student W's response is irrelevant, we must focus on the circumstances that put Student W in peril either way (because they might be scrutinized or because they're learning to make themself subservient to the masses). The circumstances, I believe, must include the following questions:
- Why would I not tell the truth?
- Who am I helping? How do I know what I'm doing is truly "helpful?" What do I mean by "help?"
- How do I know I'm helping the person I am keeping anonymous?
- Who am I hurting? What do I mean by "hurt?"
- Is this an interaction I control or is my voice incomparable to the will of the masses? If I relent that my own personal will is irrelevant (assuming it's different than that of the group), how do I know the will of the group is moral? Is morality my aim or is this about something else?
- What is this about? What's the point?
- If I'm trying to do the right thing, what do I mean by "right" and what makes something so?
- What am I going to do? Why am I going to do it? Does it matter (the action and/or the reasoning)?
Though terribly extensive, this enumeration has some deeply compelling questions. To conceptualize "Snitchin'" as a bad thing, we must believe some negative outcome results from this behavior. Though one might be able to make that argument in broad instances, as considered by Canada, Cooper, Simmons, and Cam'ron, it seems schools are a less dynamic scenario. In other words, we have to ask what the disadvantage is to Student W telling Teacher who stole the iPod.
Although there’s certainly the unequal distribution of power, which is a concern when such a resource might be abused but is, hopefully, not a fear within schools, this seems too inherent within the structure of schools to satisfactorily justify a student protecting someone’s criminal behavior. Even if we were to suggest it’s disadvantageous to empower school faculty and staff, this is a case whereby we must take relevance into account and focus, more closely, on which is a greater evil: to empower school faculty and staff or protect the wrongdoer. At a most fundamental level, we can at least agree that Teacher should be trying to do “the right thing” by discovering who stole Student V’s iPod. However, it seems hard to believe Student T is doing “the right thing” by stealing a peer’s property.
Again, there’s certainly the potential that Teacher will abuse the power and knowledge in some way, but based on the limited information we have, we do not know there will be a negative outcome. This juxtaposes Student T’s act which is inherently bad. If all this is true, then it seems inappropriate for Student W to withhold information from Teacher as that act, most likely, will only support the greater evil. If for no other reason than that, I would argue, Student W should confess what they know; turn in Student T.
If this is reasonable, and perhaps even agreeable, then what does it tell us about a "Snitch?" By all appearances, a Snitch seems to be someone who refuses to protect the insipient transgressor, the acrimonious, and the nihilist. The Snitch is not someone who lives by what Cam'ron calls a "code of ethics," but in spite of it; someone who does the right thing regardless of tenuous diatribe positing as reason, truth, and morality. The Snitch is someone who seeks the greater good or, at least, the lesser harm. The Snitch, therefore, is someone far less dispicable than the wrongdoer but is an individual in an undesirable situation that does the right thing anyway. Far from culpable, this is someone we might praise.
For now, I need to step back from this line of inquiry, but hope this has been of some value to you, the Reader. I welcome any comments, insights, or other recommended resources I might consult.
Before I leave it, however, I should couch this hypothetical scenario in the harsh reality that there are very real consequences to the decisions we all make. There are deep ramifications for children in schools, particularly. I've attached a link to an article from March 24th's NY Times which speaks to a child that alleges he was consistently beaten up by classmates over an extended period of time and without support from his school's administration. We all know how tragic the results of such inappropriate abuses can be for both the individual and the community. (The link is: http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/24/us/24land.html?_r=1&ex=1364097600&en=a959e88983771fc2&ei=5088&partner=rssnyt&emc=rss&oref=slogin).
Here's another link, added on March 28th, that speaks to bullying and gossip: http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/27/nyregion/27gossip.html?_r=1&ex=1364356800&en=20cb0fa24adc0dbb&ei=5088&partner=rssnyt&emc=rss&oref=slogin.
Sound the Alarm! A Sign of Things to Come
By this time tomorrow, the Red Sox will have already won their season-opener and you'll have gotten up at 6am EST to watch it for yourself. Hurrah!
And, for those of you trying to figure out when you'll be able to watch your beloved Red Sox, I've compiled a list of nationally televised games (for those of you not lucky enough to get NESN). Anyways, enjoy and Go Sox!
Sat. April 12 @3:55pm. Red Sox v. Yankees from Fenway Park. Fox.
Sun. Apr. 13 @1:35pm. Red Sox v. Yankees from Fenway Park. ESPN.
Mon. Apr. 14 @7:05pm. Red Sox at Indians from Jacobs Field. ESPN.
Mon. May 5 @7:05pm. Red Sox at Tigers from Comerica Park. ESPN.
Sun. May 11 @8:05pm. Red Sox at Twins from the Metrodome. ESPN.
Mon. May 12 @7:05. Red Sox at Twins from the Metrodome. ESPN.
Sat. May 17 @3:55pm. Red Sox v. Brewers from Fenway Park. Fox.
Sat. June 7 @3:55pm. Red Sox v. Mariners from Fenway Park. Fox.
Sat. June 14 @3:55pm. Red Sox at Reds from the Great American Ball Park. Fox.
Mon. June 16 @7:05pm. Red Sox at Phillies from Citizens Bank Park. ESPN.
Sat. June 21 @3:55pm. Red Sox v. Cardinals from Fenway Park. Fox.
Sat. July 5 @3:55pm. Red Sox at Yankees from Yankee Stadium. Fox.
Mon. July 7 @ 7:05pm. Red Sox v. Twins from Fenway Park. ESPN.
Sat. July 19 @3:55pm. Red Sox at Angels from Angel Stadium. Fox.
Sat. July 26 @3:55pm. Red Sox v. Yankees from Fenway Park. Fox.
Mon. July 28 @7:05pm. Red Sox v. Angels from Fenway Park. ESPN.
Mon. Aug. 4 @8:10pm. Red Sox at Royals from Kauffman Stadium. ESPN.
Fri. Sept. 26 @7:05. Red Sox v. Yankees from Fenway Park. ESPN.
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Scary Times
Nevermind that she and her lawyer are arguing it was her "First Amendment right to express herself" or that there was clearly "no evidence of criminal intent," I'm wondering what would possess her to think about this in the first place. I mean, if she lost a bet, I might be a little more understanding, but you're talking about someone who thought about this, devised the plan, probably constructed the circuit board herself, and then carried out these designs.
Can you imagine? She headed out to Logan and must have asked herself, "Am I forgetting anything? Circuit board. Duct tape. Extra batteries. Toll money. Nope, I guess I have everything."
As for the judge not throwing out the case, I have to say I'm relieved to hear the Hon. Paul Mahoney is taking this so seriously. As an educator, I'm weary of people doing things strictly for the sake of gathering attention. It's true I dabble in the histrionics with some of my posts, pics, and text, but I believe, along with the eccentricities, I'm trying to make a point that might be of some value. In the aforementioned case of this MIT student, I'm afraid I'm missing her point, assuming there was one. How is what she did, for example, different than a kid displaying a gun at school? only later for it to be discovered it was a water gun? Is it different than putting a swastika in a public bathroom and then defending it by suggesting you didn't mean it to be understood with the malicious connotation of the Third Reich, but with the benevolence of Sanskrit and Neolithic Indian intent?
My concern is not only that this young person is sadly claiming to be misunderstood, but that she's doing so after so clearly jeopardizing countless individuals' senses of safety and security. We're talking about someone who has given us every reason to believe she's wearing a bomb as she's walking beside us in public. The victims here are people who were, simply, going about their daily lives in ways that neither impeded or threatened those around them. This antagonist, however, is a recklessly immature young person that needs to understand the significance of individual decisions and how they affect the community in ways that, perhaps, only the Hon. Paul Mahoney can sufficiently elucidate.
Couple Things on My Mind
ESPN had more than 3 million brackets registered on their website. Only 2 have all 16 "Sweet Sixteen" teams correct. By the way, do you know what the "M" in Masacchusetts is for? How do 3 million people try something and only 2 people get half way through it? And that isn't to say that either of those two people has their entire bracket correct: only that they have the Sweet Sixteen correct. Wow. Exactly how many lead paint chips does it take to conceive of the possibility that Stanford, Xavier, and West Virginia would beat Connecticut, Purdue, and Duke to make it to the third round of "the Big Dance?" More importantly, I understand this is the advantage to sucking down paint chips like they were Frosted Flakes, but what's the trade off, right?
Hey, keep in mind I'm the guy with the laughable bracket and 50% of the Sweet Sixteen's participants. Congrats to anyone who did better.
Happy Easter, Red Sox!
Besides Easter and the Red Sox, Kim's still fighting her cold and seems to feel even worse than yesterday, while I'm shaking off the final remnants of my flu. I have the upcoming week off, like last week, thanks to my school's break, but I have a couple papers I need to do for grad school and, along with some grading paperwork to complete for my job. Overall, this break's been great, though it would have been nice to have better health for its entirety. But how can I complain?
Finally, not only do I have the second half of my vacation coming up, my mom's coming into NYC to visit on March 29th. What a nice way to end my break!
Saturday, March 22, 2008
Down and Out
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Two More Pics from Met Museum
Balcony Cafe
Jeff and I entered the Met (The Metropolitan Museum of Art) and immediately made our way to the Balcony Cafe. Not only was it a great perch to people-watch, as it overlooks the Main Hall, but it was a wonderful place to relax and enjoy a chilled refreshment.
World's Shyest Squirrel
Jeff Looking at Himself
Dog Urine Kills Trees
Check, Please!
Lunch at Global Kitchen
One Last Day with Jeff
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Formal Wear
Tuxedo tee-shirts aside, it can be really hard to find something apropros for those special occasions. This, however, is the clear exception. Whether you're going to a wedding, Broadway, or even just work, this is exactly what you need to look like a winner...literally. For more on the cuff links, go to:
http://www.chowdaheadz.com/boston-red-sox-cufflinks.html.